Happy Monday ladies! I pray you have a wonderful week! To begin our workweek, we will be reading Matthew 7:1-5. “Instead of judging others, we are to evaluate ourselves and confess our own blind spots and sin issues.”
In our day-to-day lives, it’s easy to fall into the trap of being quick to judge others. Whether it’s someone’s actions, choices, or appearance, judgment often slips in before kindness has a chance to take root. Yet, the Bible reminds us of a better way—choosing understanding and compassion instead of criticism. One passage that speaks to this is found in Matthew 7:1-5, where Jesus says, “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?” This message challenges us to recognize our own shortcomings rather than focusing on the flaws in others. Being kind rather than judgmental starts with humility. It’s about understanding that none of us are perfect, and that life is complicated. That person we might be tempted to judge could be carrying burdens we can’t see. By extending kindness, we mirror the grace that God has freely given to us, acknowledging that we, too, are in need of His forgiveness and compassion.
Romans 8:1 further reinforces this principle: “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” If God, in His infinite mercy, does not condemn us, who are we to condemn others? Instead, we are called to reflect His love, offering understanding and support rather than judgment. Cultivating kindness over judgment doesn’t mean ignoring wrongdoings or failing to hold people accountable when necessary. But it does mean approaching situations with a heart ready to listen, empathize, and forgive. As we discussed about forgiveness, it is important that we forgive others just as Jesus forgives us. Boundaries are important, continue to stay within those lines. Jesus calls us to forgive. This does not mean we are to continue a relationship with that person but rather follow Jesus’ commands. A kind word or gesture can be transformative, creating connections rather than divisions. So, the next time you find yourself tempted to judge, pause and reflect on these verses. Choose kindness—it’s not just an act, but a reflection of the love and grace we’ve been shown. In doing so, you not only uplift others but also grow closer to the example of Jesus Himself. After all, kindness has the power to heal, unite, and inspire in ways that judgment never can.
Let’s discuss what we just learned. I have some questions that I want you to think about, write them down, and if you’d like to comment below, we can discuss them together!
- In what ways do you struggle with judging others?
- What is at the root of your judgement?
- Seek God’s help to help you see and treat others with grace and mercy rather than judgement.
“As God’s people, may we not be known for being people of judgement but rather a people of grace.”
Today’s verse for Lent prayer is Ephesians 1:20-21 and the prayer prompt is, “Rejoice that Christ is alive and is currently reigning over all things. Pray a prayer of adoration for Jesus and His incredible power and majesty.”
I hope you enjoy this study and decide to come back. Tomorrow we will discuss Fighting Bitterness with God’s Faithfulness. I hope you enjoy the beautiful sunset that was made by our loving Father and y’all have a wonderful night.
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